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Just Another Day At The Beach

When Clothing is Optional and you have a Disability not much is Typical

Victoria Ponte
5 min readAug 25, 2019

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I had to sit in a wheelchair for three hours. Or, I got to sit in a wheelchair for three hours. Perspective is everything.

I was excited to go to the beach for the first time in about 18 years. It is extra challenging with a disability. I am fortunate to have a boyfriend who has the patience of a saint and wanted to take me to New Jersey’s only legal clothing optional beach no matter how hard it would be.

He has been going to this beach for many years. Since we’ve been involved, he has been there a few times by himself. He loves it there. He wanted to give me a day at the beach with him. I really miss going to the beach:

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Gateway National Recreation Area at Sandy Hook is managed by the National Park Service. As such, they are ADA compliant. They have beach wheelchairs you can borrow at no charge for the day.

We planned a visit on a Saturday when the extreme heat was set to break. I made a reservation to get a wheelchair. We decided not to worry about the crowds and the traffic on a beautiful Saturday going to the beach at the end of summer.

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Victoria Ponte
Victoria Ponte

Written by Victoria Ponte

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